we just plain love the excitement of mayhem. is it possible to appeal to the excitement without the actual mayhem?

you get in the ring with someone whose face is painted scary like yours. you pound the crap out of each other. afterwards you shake hands and look each other in the eye and notice them notice you. you feel regret, frustration, pride, grudging respect.

another point if your gut reaction was different

a third if you lied on the last one

awe keep paying for lies until they admit to telling the truth

for this they get another point for the wisdom gained by seeing this in yourself

looking inside is very unpleasant. as a reward, 10 points and automatic promotion to the next level.

how can we make this action, excitement, attractive?